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作者：张南湘 · 更新日期：2025-05-10
What makes a man an ideal husband? Is it his biceps, beards, the size of his bank account or does it require the wisdom of the ancient Chinese to answer that?
For centuries, people have tried to find the answers to what makes the ideal partner in life and in Chinese culture, one of the most enduring ideas is the concept of the "Ba Zi" or "Four Pillars of Destiny". A person's Ba Zi is calculated using their birthdate and time and is said to determine their personality traits, strengths, weaknesses, and future prospects.
According to Ba Zi, there are eight key characteristics that make up an ideal husband:
1. 正 🐛 官 🌼 (Zheng Guan)
Government Official Star
A man with a strong Zheng Guan star in his Ba Zi is said to be responsible, disciplined, and have a strong sense of duty.
2. 七 🦁 杀 🦆 (Qi Sha)
Seven Killings Star
A man with a strong Qi Sha star is said to be courageous, decisive, and a natural leader.
3. 正 🌺 印 💮 (Zheng Yin)
Direct Seal Star
A man with a strong Zheng Yin star is said to be intelligent, wise, and have a kind and compassionate nature.
4. 食 🌾 神 🌷 (Shi Shen)
Food God Star
A man with a strong Shi Shen star is said to be creative, expressive, and a good provider.
5. 伤 💐 官 (Shuang Guan)
Hurting Officer Star
A man with a strong Shuang Guan star is said to be independent, nonconformist, and a free thinker.
6. 比肩 🦟 (Bi Jian)
Shoulder to Shoulder Star
A man with a strong Bi Jian star is said to be loyal, supportive, and a good friend.
7. 劫 🦢 财 (Jie Cai)
Robbing Wealth Star
A man with a strong Jie Cai star is said to be ambitious, competitive, and a bit of a risktaker.
8. 偏 🌳 财 🐈 (Pian Cai)
Indirect Wealth Star
A man with a strong Pian Cai star is said to be charming, sociable, and good at making money.
Of course, not all men will have all eight of these characteristics in their Ba Zi. However, the more of these characteristics a man has, the more likely he is to be considered an ideal husband in Chinese culture.
It is important to note that Ba Zi is a complex system and there are many other factors that can influence a person's personality and relationship prospects. However, if you are looking for a general overview of what makes a good husband, Ba Zi can be a helpful resource.
八字 🐕 自私男 🐡 性的特征：
比肩劫财旺盛劫财：过多代表争抢、克制比肩过多代表，自、私，自我为中心两者旺盛则容易表 🐟 现出自私的倾向。
日主太旺日主太旺：身，强，而，不，担财官容易自以为是 🌲 难以容忍他人意见有强烈的自我保护意识和占有欲。
食伤吐秀不及食伤：代表感情的输出食伤吐秀不 🐞 及表，示感情不，容易表达 🕸 内向、自 🕊 ，私不愿付出。
官杀混杂官杀混杂：代表竞争激烈，容，易因利 🌴 益而自私对他人缺乏信任和帮助之心。
财星入墓或受损财星：代表 🐱 物质和人际关系财星入墓或受损，则物质，匮 🌾 ，乏人际关系，不佳容易产生自私的心理。
桃花星过多桃花星过 💮 多：主情缘泛滥，容，易，沉迷于感情 🦈 世界难以专一对他人缺乏责任 🐠 心。
日坐空亡日坐空亡：代表 🦟 根基不稳，缺，乏，安 🐦 全感容易封闭自己自私自利。
驿马逢冲驿马逢冲：代 🌿 表漂 🐱 泊不定，难，以，稳定下来容易自我为中心忽视他人的感受。
天干地支皆无合天干地支皆无合：表，示，缺 🐡 ，少相互沟通和支 🌷 持容易固执己见自私自 🦢 利。
命局中伤官旺盛伤官旺盛：主，克，制官星容 🦆 易叛逆、自，私难以服 🐈 从他人。
需要注意的是，以，上特征仅供参考并不一定每个人都符合。八，字。分析需要综合考虑命 🐼 局整体格局不能孤立地看待某一种特征
